Amie Woolsey

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Healing With Hope

Alana and Amie talk about how important hope is in the healing journey, but also how an unwise amount of hope can work against us. Learning to navigate this can greatly impact how we move forward.

puppy looking up at Amie

Love Is Always an Option

As I stared into these little puppy dog eyes feeling so frustrated that she wouldn’t do what I wanted her to do, I realized that I could feel frustrated, or choose to feel love.
When we can’t control things in our lies it’s easy to let the negative emotions of that overcome us. It’s hard sometimes to choose love.
Today I share some thoughts about how to do this and who it really benefits.

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Taming Your Triggers with guests Hali Roderick and Luke Gordon

Triggers are a huge part of healing and also just a huge part of being human. Learning how to tame those triggers is a skill worth developing. Hali shares her thoughts and tools on how to do just that! When the spouse who has been betrayed has these triggers, it’s often frustrating and confusing to the other partner and can often cause further damage.

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The Elements Of Abuse Course Announcement

Due to the amazing feedback and growing interest for help and tools around the topic of abuse and addiction, Kimberly Day and myself have a NEW COURSE starting October 10th to help with this very thing! Today I talk about how this course will be an amazing tools and place to start for those who are looking for help and haven’t yet found it.

Flag flying over area after 9/11


In remembrance of 9-11-21 the word FREEDOM came to mind. More specifically, FREEDOM from abuse. There are many ways that we do not exercise our freedom. The freedom to have a voice, to feel, to change our minds and so forth. I see more and more cases of abuse and notice how many woman minimize their abuse.

boys playing football on the ground, lean into the pain

Leaning Into The Pain

I want to share thoughts about how we can lean into our pain and how it will actually help us to have less suffering. If you want help with the steps you can take to lean into your pain and let it move through you then lets chat.

Bitter Isn't Better in Divorce

Bitter Isn’t Better

I had a client who had decided that divorce was the next best step for her and her situation- and at the same time she wanted to know how to not become bitter towards her spouse as she moved towards divorce and I thought that was such a great question. So I want to talk about how to overcome bitterness in my message today.

Loving Yourself IN the mess

Loving Yourself IN the Mess

I hear so many women say- my life is a mess, I hate it, i just want to fix this mess, how did it get to be such a mess? Today i want to challenge these thoughts and offer a new thought. What if you could love yourself in the mess? What if the mess doesn’t mean anything about YOU?

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Stages of Grief and Betrayal Trauma

In this episode, Alana shares the critical parts of healing from betrayal and why allowing yourself to grieve is so important to your healing. As they’ve studied betrayal trauma, they have found that the healing from that, directly parallels the healing of the trauma of losing a loved one suddenly.

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CHOOSE TO BE: Hope For the Future

In this episode Amie has a discussion with the women from her YSA Dating course. They talk about the struggles with dating in todays world, the fears that they have and how through this 11 week dating course they have found hope for their future and are learning to love themselves FIRST!

Clean out your brain

Let’s Dejunk!

If you are tired of waking up with the same junk thoughts your brain keeps offering you, it’s time for some cleaning up. I want to help you see that it’s not only possible, but you will see that you are capable.

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